Friday, July 22, 2011

Sweet drinks = a troublesome date?

Happy Friday!

There is a theory I've heard mentioned, to never date women who like sweet drinks (that is, to only date women who like more savory or sour drinks).

As the theory goes, those who are more pampered in their desires and demeanor are harder to please. Or that if they like sweet drinks, they never grew up to more adult likes, tastes and desires. Therefore, it must follow that they want to be pampered and treated with more respect than perhaps they are due; or more respect than their date is due in comparison to them. 

Or maybe they want to be treated better than they want to treat someone else. Perhaps, they simply will not put up with a lot of nonsense and so the guy will have to work much harder for whatever he may think his just rewards should be at the end of the date. Basically, it's all about effort and reward.

Just how much should you have to put out to get someone to put out?

Hasn't that always been the question, ever since High School? And don't most of us have a sense of desire and reward that outweighs what we deserve or should expect?

So perhaps that is what leads to theories such as don't date a girl if she orders a sweet drink. But why would you date a girl if she orders a not sweet or more savory, or sour drink? Well, let's think about that for a minute. If a girl can stand a sour drink, she doesn't mind more sophisticated flavors. She may have more sophisticated feelings, more complicated desires and more complex thoughts.

But is there any basis in reality for that?


But then, it's one of those things apparently, that when guys get together, it's just fun to talk about. Because, wouldn't it be nice if there were some magic formula that told you what to do, when, or what not to do and when?

But life and especially dating, simply isn't that easy. And that is part of the fun. Isn't it?

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